Dilemma

Have you facing this? Eventhough we are not doing wrong or something bad to them, they doing bad to us. I'm facing this right now.
Story 1:
One of my ex-staff reporting to me, currently my neighbour (not side by side but in one row with my house) is giving hurt to me. Last week sunday, he conduct open house but do not invite us. At first I keep saying... ala orang x invite lg senang x yah la pegi... but deep in my heart...I keep thinking why this situation happen to me? Yea... from other colleague, they inform that he was very grievance towards me. Actually, I do not know what I have done wrong towards him. He personally quit the company previously and gave reason that the management want him to join shift not work in normal working hour as the time reporting to me. Meaning change to other section. But he was thinking that it was a conspiracy done by me to let him move out. But commonly man... see yourself first. If you are right, the boss wont do it to you la... Actually, my boss and boss to the boss already rimas with his act and they plan that to limit his movement. Ye la if reporting to me he has to go out to visit vendor but the other section only work inside the kilang. I know you la... I've been working with you for almost four years and I really know yourself. See yourself first before pointing a finger towards others to show the wrong doings. Always missing from workplace... even the other neighbour report to me he lepak at house in the office hour.. cheating overtime... when comes to do works.. so many excuses given .. . .. I think I am the most simplest and the most democratic boss he ever had la... For the past 4 years I was giving him most tolerance that I can give and always support him what..... After he resign from the company he join a company and I heard it only last for 4 months only. I heard he gaduh with his boss... and now unemployed. Other collegues also now looking for him due to loan debt which not settle since he quit our company alhtough he has job at that moment. .... And right now I keep thinking .......how come a person with no jobs.... having unsettle amount of debt... which may be black list (he and his guarantors which also my friends) still have the wills to have an open house activity.... hmmm... blank...
Story 2:
My daughter's ex-pengasuh also conduct open house on saturday, and he also not inviting us. Blank... ye la marah mmg still ada sbb ada crita2 yang kurang menyenangkan masa dia menjaga my baby but itu kan cerita lama... I also still drop by her stall which sell Roti Canai... but not always la..sbb kurengg skit kan.. The most hurting is when the other neighbour do ask ...why not join the open house... how to join... orang x mau invite...

Blank... blank ... blank... what to do ... just be patient....
Plan: if we do open house or other activity... plan to invite them from both cases.... but what to do... pulus pula... tidak mengizinkan da... walau kecil2an.....